I’m lucky. I love to cook, but I don’t need to cook every day. My wife also likes to cook. She cooks more often than me. I enjoy her cooking.
So – I don’t need to cook. But I enjoy cooking and she enjoys my cooking.
I cook because I want to, not because I have to. Whenever I annouce that I will cook she allows me to do that.
Today I decided to cook because I wanted to. Cooking makes me feel good. It gains me a few points. And I get to have some fun in the kitchen.