February 27, 2013
At the age of 22 I declared that I only wanted to do two things with my life. I wanted to ski all winter and ride a motorycle all summer.
Instead – marriage, family, career and business took over my life. About 30 years after that initial declaration I finally got back to those two pursuits. Now either of those activities are the best part of my week
It might have taken me a lot longer than I expected – but I’m doing what I love to do.
January 17, 2012
Be willing to make mistakes and learn from them. Look at failures as lessons that help you move forward. No particular mistake or failure should be the end of the process. The only decision that you might make that ends the process is the one to quit. Consider mistakes as a cost of growing. Claim your return on that investment by learning from each stumble.
Unfortunately the schools have taught us to avoid failure. The emphasis is on obtaining high marks instead of the learning process. Instead we need to seek success and be prepared to manage the failures.
We tend to learn more from our failures than our successes so if you want to learn faster – fail more often. If you haven’t failed in recent memory then it might mean that you are playing it too safe. For example, if no one ever complains that your price is too high, then it’s too low.
Fail cheap. Don’t bet the farm, because you could lose. Always consider the downside of every venture. Do what you can to diminish the pain.
Thanks to Jim Estill for this powerful advice. I’ve heard him say it often and every time it resonates with me.
This is part of the Top 10 Tips to Make 2012 a More Productive and Profitable Year as originally broadcast on the radio show Business in Motion on 93.3 CFMU by your host, George Torok. To listen to the 30 minute radio show, visit the Business in Motion podcasts.
February 20, 2011
What will it take to make that pain go away?
Sometimes it’s time. The loss of a loved one or the healing of a wound.
Sometimes you need to focus on the goal and ignore the pain. Like preparing for an exam or training for a marathon.
Sometimes you need to change what you are doing and stop banging your head against the wall. A job, career or relationship that is not working.
The tough part is knowing the difference and selecting your path of pain relief.